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Understanding Fibromyalgia Symptoms and Why it is so Difficult to Diagnose

  • Writer: Melanie MH
    Melanie MH
  • May 26
  • 6 min read

Updated: Jun 10

In these last years a new world seems to navigate through the web and medical circles. This word is “Fibromyalgia” and is coming out as a new illness affecting always more and more people, especially in the so called “civilised” world. It is often a progressive condition, and its symptoms can intensify over time. At beginning symptoms may not disrupt daily life significantly, and an early intervention could prevent escalation, but the problem is that because symptoms vary, aren’t constant and also not that severe, at beginning these are not taken that seriously, thinking that it is merely a temporary situation due to excess of work, fatigue or stress.


🟢 First Stage: A Very Subtle Starting


In the earliest stage, common symptoms are often underestimate. These may include:

  • Occasional muscle tenderness

  • Mild fatigue

  • Sleep disturbances or waking unrested

  • Digestive issues

  • Trouble concentrating or mild brain fog

  • Increased sensitivity to cold or noise


Fibromyalgia symptoms


🟡 Medium Stage: Symptoms Increase


When symptoms become more frequent and begin to interfere with regular routines and responsibilities, Fibromyalgia reaches its medium stage. Notable symptoms:

  • Frequent pain in specific muscle groups

  • More intense fatigue, even after rest

  • Sleep quality worsens noticeably

  • Cognitive challenges become more pronounced

  • Emotional stress or anxiety may increase

  • Various digestive system issues like food sensitivity, constipation, diarrhoea, IBS

  • Weekly migraine, headaches

At this stage often people understand that maybe there is something a bit more serious going on, but also think it will go away with some more rest or some therapy or supplements. As symptoms are still not constant and can vary, they also get confused, blaming different conditions upon the current symptom on play. After a while, some start searching for a solution asking a first medical consultation, as individuals are not understanding what is wrong with them and start to find quite hard to push through daily activities without any support. Often other conditions are blamed and some treatments are taken to reduce symptoms.



Why Fibromyalgia Is Often Misdiagnosed or Delayed


Fibromyalgia is notoriously difficult to diagnose, and many patients endure years of unexplained pain, fatigue, and frustration before receiving a proper diagnosis. This delay is due to a combination of misunderstanding, underestimation, and symptom confusion, even within the medical community. As if Fibromyalgia wasn't enough, often Fibromyalgia patients suffer from other chronic conditions like Neuropathy and Arthritis, which creates further confusion. … And while trying to understand what is going on, meantime the condition can worsen.


Key Reasons for Diagnostic Challenges:

  • Invisible Illness: Fibromyalgia itself does not appear on blood tests, X-rays, or MRI scans, making it a clinical diagnosis based on symptoms rather than physical markers.

  • Symptom Overlap: Many of its symptoms like chronic fatigue, muscle pain, and brain fog often look like other conditions such as lupus, rheumatoid arthritis, chronic fatigue syndrome, or neuropathy, generating confusion and difficult to identify.

  • Variable Symptoms: Symptoms often vary widely from person to person and can fluctuate in severity, making it hard to pin down a consistent pattern.

  • Misconceptions in Medicine: Fibromyalgia has long been underestimated and misunderstood, sometimes dismissed as psychological rather than neurological or musculoskeletal. The full understanding is still on the go. Many recent researches seems to agree that one of the root cause is a progressive neurological degradation due to long chronic stress and traumas, that is affecting as consequence other body systems like the musculoskeletal one. Other contributing factors seems to be inflammation, insulin resistance and toxins.

  • Lack of Awareness: Many doctors still don’t fully understand fibromyalgia, so it’s often overlooked or misdiagnosed. General practitioners may not be fully familiar with it, leading to misdiagnosis or delayed referrals to specialists. That’s why it can take years to get the right diagnosis.

  • Diagnosis of Exclusion: Because fibromyalgia is a diagnosis of exclusion, doctors must first rule out other possible causes. At the same time Fibromyalgia often allies with other chronic conditions, therefore trying to reduce to just one illness can be miss leading. This whole process can take months or even years, contributing to delayed treatment and worsening symptoms.


Early recognition, informed healthcare providers, and self-advocacy are essential in shortening the time to diagnosis and starting effective management sooner. If you feel these symptoms don’t underestimate them. It is not "just" a never ending stressful time mixed with maybe arthritis, maybe muscle tensions, maybe digestive issues, maybe, maybe, maybe. All these constant alternative symptoms "together" are part of one major condition. Waste no time as you will prefer not to reach the top stage.



🔴 Top Stage: Chronic and Disabling Symptoms


Unfortunately most people wont be diagnosed with Fibromyalgia until things get very bad. This is the most severe stage, where symptoms are persistent everyday and significantly reduce the “normal” routine and quality of life. Key symptoms might include:

  • Chronic pain throughout the body or specific body parts 

  • Debilitating fatigue that limits most physical activity

  • Severe brain fog and memory issues

  • Heightened sensitivity to sensory stimuli, even touch

  • Feeling cold, feeling hot, and joint burning sensations

  • Depression, anxiety, and emotional overwhelm

  • Insomnia and continuous exhaustion and tiredness

  • Painful shocks like pinched nerves even without moving

  • Reduced mobility and very low stamina


At this stage managing Fibromyalgia has surely becomes the biggest priority, as people life is just a continuous pain, consistent physical and mental exhaustion, and even easy daily tasks can require enormous efforts. Life begins to be more like a nightmare. A “normal life or routine” is impossible and many fall into depression too as there seems to be no way out. Often other conditions are blamed as they still do not know it is Fibromyalgia. What is sure is that things do not improve as suppose to.

Usually, after going from one doctor to an other, are updated rheumatologist doctors that manage to diagnose Fibromyalgia as it is a "recent" discovered illness.


A “serious” comprehensive and personalised treatment plan by specialised doctors in rheumatology and neurology, together with physiotherapists, is required to treat Fibromyalgia. Include other complementary therapies like massages to enhance the “traditional” medicament can be very helpful and also improve the quality life by helping relax, calm the nervous system, and ease muscle tensions and pains.

Fibromyalgia is often accompany by inflammation, so a detox and no sugar diet to address these would be highly recommend as inflammation also increases the body pains. Supplement to help nourish and heal the nervous system, joints and bones, and the gut is also highly recommended. Many people affected by Fibromyalgia feel alone in this nightmare as no-one seems to understand the pain and exhaustion they feel, so a Fibromyalgia support group will help them feel more understood and supported.


Life will be different for a while, until treatments will start to decrease the symptoms so that a partial “normal” life will be possible again. With time and commitment things can get a bit better, one step after the other, and always by taking it gently. People affecting by Fibromyalgia face a battle everyday, some days are better and some worse. Some complain more, other instead isolate and keep smiling to hide the severity of their condition from others. Families and friend can be supporting just by understanding this condition and not push more pressure on the person. A home positive environment is important too. Avoid stress.


Some say that people can never fully recover from Fibromyalgia, but this is just because they are still trying to fully understood it and haven’t found a solution yet. Have a bit of faith, the human body has resources beyond our notions and with time and the right help, condition and support, is able to heal itself as designed by God and Mother Nature.



I highly recommend that if you do recognise in you most of the fibromyalgia symptoms above, do not keep pushing yourself thinking that with just more rest or supplements or painkillers you will feel better and regain your energies. If you "keep falling" into exhaustions, migraine, pain and others of those symptoms, your body needs more than just rest and supplements. Do not underestimate those symptoms until Fibromyalgia suddenly worsen. Your health is important as those of others, and it deserves to get the time and care necessary to stay well.


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